
Enlightened Relating - a new model of relationship
Discover and Harness The Secrets Successful Women Have Used Throughout Time to Attract Love Into Your Life
An invitation to explore and attract relationship
in paradise...
You are reading this because you are looking for love; you want to find that special soulmate; you want to be in a relationship with someone special. And you are at a stage in your life where you sense that it's time to explore what it is you really want and what has to happen for you to have this magic in your life maybe for the very first time. AND you may need to let go of some past hurts, regrets and resentments before you can. This is where we come in....
I’m Peta Heskell. For 10 years I’d worked as The Flirt Coach, successfully helping people to develop confidence,attract relationship and find love when something happened that knocked my world for six and taught me one of the greatest lessons of my life.
Almost four years ago, after nearly 20 years of ongoing relationship, I was suddenly single! And, only two months before that I’d written a Flirt Coach press release that said ‘Be Blissfully Single This Valentines’ . Ooops!
I realised that if I were to continue this work in integrity and be true to myself, I’d have to walk my talk and learn how to be blissfully single before I could even think of being in relationship with someone special. And I believe what I learned will be of immense help to single women everwhere to embark on what I now call a REAL relating adventure.
© I spent 3 years learning to enjoy being single
© I hired a mentor coach to help me heal and guide me on the journey towards love
© I explored my old relationship patterns and how I'd limited myself
© I worked through and accepted that being my age was not a curse but a GIFT
© I flew across the ocean to attend courses in beautiful healing locations to learn to love ME and how to help others attract love
© I created my personal attraction plan for a special man and revised it frequently.
© I joined an internet dating site and spent time exploring
© I resolved to treat every relating experience as an opportunity to grow and learn - even if it ended.
And a few days before my 55th birthday, I received a gift from a very special man who had entered my life through synchronous connections, only a few months earlier
It wasn’t a dozen roses or a fancy dinner or even an engagement ring – it was much much more.
It was a chance to test myself, to join him in exploring relationship, loving and working together, seeing what happens, promising me nothing more than a current desire to be with me and offering a commitment to total openness and a willingness to learn along the road. And that's as much as anyone can expect.
This man appeared to fit most of the details on my attraction plan and we spent a few blissful months exploring relating in a way that changed my life. I discovered a lot about romantic projection and how wanting something will often blind us to what really is.
We are no longer romantically attached but I don't consider this a failure because through him I have met someone with whom I am about to embark on the most exciting business venture of my life.
I discovered that it's important to see the wider perspective on any experience we encounter. Every life situation has an element of joy waiting for us to discover it.
The experience has been one of the greatest growing and evolutionary periods of my life. I have had more epiphanies about relationship than ever before and I am ready to share my learning with you.
Because when you get how relating really works, you'll be more than ready to attract and engage in a real relationship than you ever were.
I learned an immense amount about the importance of being important to ourselves, about letting life happen as it is meant to and above all about the art of relating. I learned how to heal quickly and how to believe, as you will that love enters our life when we generate it from inside.
And I debunked some myths and reformulated how the Law of Attraction really works.
And now I’m here to help you approach relating in a way that will always serve you and create ongoing love in your life whether you are single or romantically involved.
I know that as you begin to open to exploring yourself and making time in your life to first BE and then do what it takes, you will attract exactly what YOU NEED and whoever and whatever situation is perfect for you and you will become more equipped to relate in a way that helps you to evolve
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And you can begin the journey to your own relationship adventure in paradise…in the most magical location I’ve ever visited...Marigot Bay in St LuciaFACT! A relationship will not save you. You cannot receive true unconditional love until you love yourself in exactly the way you want to be loved.
If you enter into a relationship it must be as a whole person with a desire to blend your deepest life with another.When you learn to be open out to a new kind of more honest relating no matter your age, you will attract magical relating experiences .
I’ve created this truly special and empowering week in which I intend to share with a small group of 10 women, the benefit of everything I’ve experienced and learned in the last three years of intensive exploration into this game we call relating.
There are only 10 places on this course.
Will you be with us in September 19th to 28th? I hope so.
Email Peta for more info or phone her on
UK 0203166 5016
USA 415 992-5473
We women are such amazing creatures.We know how to love deeply to cherish and nurture – it is in our genes. We can be tender and strong, quiet and explosive, evasive and available.
We have an endless well of feminine energy to offer a man and in turn it is our right to be blessed by the blissful sensation of being enfolded and loved by someone special.
We are so desirable and magical that I sometimes wonder why any of us are single.
Which is crazy, because...
Being single is the greatest gift you have been given
© Being single is the gift that enables you to look back calmly on all that was and let go of resentment, anger and all those other useless emotions that are blocking you from finding true love.
© Being single is the gift that enables you to build a future potential that contains none of what wasn’t right and everything that is a perfect match and fit for you.
© Being single is the gift that allows you time to explore who you really are, to really discover what makes you tick and to build your inner strength and resilience and to shape and mould your dreams into reality.
© Being single is the gift that allows you to focus on developing your loving nature so that when the time comes you offer love not as a bribe to be loved but because you are so steeped in love you have plenty to spare.
© Being single is also the gift that allows you to jet out to an island in the Caribbean for a week and immerse yourself in 10 days of total makeover and healing from the inside out; to bask in the steamy heat of the rainforest and revive your sensual, sexual and feminine powers of attraction
When you use your single time wisely to heal, explore, be at peace and allow what is meant to be to unfold as you do, you are much more likely to find yourself attracting the love you want into your life.
Let’s take a few moments to reflect on how it’s been until now and why things may not have worked out as you expected.
FACT! Like me, you’ve probably been given the ‘bible’ of relationships. And most of it is complete b-s.It promises a fairytale and salvation from loneliness as long as you follow the rules. And some of us did follow the 'rules' and it didn't turn out the way we expected so NOW..
It’s time to try something new. Something that is designed to make you relationship- ready from the inside out
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Let’s take a moment to look at some of the common relationship mistakes people make – maybe you’ll recognise your own experience in here, I know mine is ;-)
ý Too much loving In the past you may have thought you needed to be a certain way, or given too much expecting a return in kind and because you didn't get that, you may now be holding yourself back from surrendering fully to love.
ý Compromise - anything is better than nothing You may have entered relationships that you knew weren’t for you but still you compromised because you thought it was better to be in a relationship than not.
ý Expecting a relationship to save you. You may have searched for the 'prince charming' the man who by being in your life will look after you financially and emotionally and make all the unpleasant 'stuff' of life go away
ý Making it up and expecting it to be real You may have projected an idea of what you thought it should be and blindly expected the man to live up to your ideal failing to notice the potential fault lines and incompatibilities. In short somewhere along the line, chances are, you’ve deceived and ultimately short changed yourself. Oops!
Relax!! You are not alone because in the box above not just one of my mistakes are in there - ALL of them are. And I’m grateful I made those mistakes because without those experiences I wouldn’t have started on my journey to find a real relationship adventure.
And I’m inviting you to step into YOUR relationship adventure. The act of relating with another that will add to, enhance and bring bliss into your life.
There are only 10 places on this course
Is it time to give yourself the ultimate gift of love?
Will you be with us in September 19th to 28th? I hope so.
Email Peta for more info or phone her on
UK 0203166 5016
USA 415 992-5473
And I started to dream about the kind of love that I want and the kind of man I want to be with and most importantly. I started to think about how I had to be for that to happen.
It began with looking inside and recreating ME. As I was truly meant to be. And this is where we will begin with you
If you are single, and you know that in the past it’s not been as you want and you still yearn for a relationship that enfolds and empowers you then this may be the week that changes your life for ever.
The most perfect relationship is the one that supports us in fulfilling our destiny--the one that empowers you to be everything you are meant to be YOU at your absolute best – always. And, above all, it is the one that makes you face yourself and grow.The time has come to get yourself ready to find, attract, nurture and have the love you want. The time has come to surrender yourself to the process that will wash you clean of all those old beliefs and regenerate the delicious spark of who you are.
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Join us for just one week in the rainforest 5***** luxury spa hideaway - on the edge of the Caribbean in magical Marigot Bay in StLucia. Come play with us as we help you reshape and reinvent yourself from the inside out.
We guarantee these ten days will change your life forever
An invitation to dream: Why not take a minute or two to read the words below then close your eyes and allow yourself to dream about how it can be for you…
Take a deep breath and as you read the words that follow, allow yourself to have the experience.. fully in your body.. and smile..
Whatif you could be happy being completely yourself AND be in a relationship that adds to your already contented life? How would it be?
What if you can be with someone who loves you...not in spite of, but BECAUSE of who you are?
What will it be like to be in a relationship where you naturally feel MORE of who you are not less?
What would it be like if you could take all your past relationship ‘mistakes’ and turn them into all the wisdom you’ll ever need to in order to attract and keep someone who really is right for you?
And what if, you also leave feeling really good about yourself with a sense of optimism that your dreams can really come true
OUR PROMISE Come to St Lucia, give yourself up to the process, have a wonderful holiday and agree to do what it takes and we guarantee it will change your life for ever, for the better.
That’s what we are offering and more this September on a magical week on the romantic island of St Lucia, in a location that has been called ‘the most beautiful bay in the Caribbean...Check out the hotel and the location by going following this link. Marigot Bay and Discovery Spa Resort
There are only 10 places on this course. I hope you will join us
on September 19th to 28th
for an unforgettable experience in paradise
Email, me, Peta for more info or phone on
UK 020 3166 5016
USA 415 92 5473
It all changed when I said to myself. “NO MORE! Next time it’s going to be different”